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Brenda Lauer

LPC

Brenda Lauer, LPC

Compassionate counselor guiding practical change

Licensed in Missouri
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About Brenda

Brenda Lauer is a Licensed Professional Counselor with 15 years of experience in private practice. She sees people with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, anger, and depression. Brenda blends a warm, gentle manner with practical tools to help people manage hard moments and gain clearer direction.

Brenda draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy along with client-centered and emotionally focused ideas. She listens first, then helps people try approaches that fit their situation. Sessions are conversational and goal-oriented, not scripted.

Her background includes work with people from many walks of life, including military and first responders, and with a range of diagnoses such as PTSD, anxiety, depression, and attention concerns. That experience shapes how she tailors coping strategies to everyday life.

Brenda emphasizes respect, compassion, and seeing things from the client's point of view. She avoids a one-size-fits-all plan and instead partners with each person to choose techniques that feel right. The focus is on small, practical steps that make daily life more manageable.

For parents and caregivers who are worried and short on time, Brenda aims to keep sessions clear and focused. She offers a steady, patient presence while teaching tools people can use between visits to reduce symptoms and improve functioning.

How Brenda’s Approaches Work Online

Brenda commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviors. CBT breaks problems into small parts and teaches practical skills for stress, anxiety, and depression.

She also draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy which focuses on clarifying values and taking committed action even when difficult feelings are present. ACT can help when avoidance keeps someone stuck and they want to build a more meaningful routine.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Brenda begins by listening to goals and concerns, then suggests methods to try. She checks in regularly and adjusts the plan based on what works for the person.

Online therapy offers flexible ways to connect. Video calls let you work face to face from another location, phone sessions need less bandwidth, live chat is useful for brief check-ins, and text-based messaging supports ongoing reflection between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy days and to use techniques in real time when challenges arise.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Brenda commonly address?

She works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, anger, and depression, and also focuses on areas like adoption and foster care, caregiver stress, chronic illness, and body image.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Brenda keeps sessions warm and direct. She listens first, then helps people try practical tools and strategies that fit their life.

What is her clinical background?

Brenda has 15 years of experience as a therapist in private practice and has worked with people from varied backgrounds, including military and first responders.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, practicing in Missouri.

Which languages are used in sessions and are international clients supported?

Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Brenda meets via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different preferences.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a time based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Solution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Licensed

Missouri

Languages

English

License and registration

LPC, Missouri
2003002001
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1114077864

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check a license with the state licensing board and an NPI in the national registry.

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